LGBTQ+ Teen Coming Out Story: A Father’s Perspective #

An 18-year-old girl’s coming out story is a powerful reminder that it is not up to parents to share this personal experience. The girl, referred to as Vivi, wanted to tell her own story and her father respected her wishes. The father reflects on his initial response, expressing regret for not making a witty joke but also feeling honored that his daughter trusted him. He emphasizes the importance of supportive parental reactions, citing the high rates of suicide and homelessness among LGBTQ+ young people. The father encourages fathers to thank their children for their trust and ask how they can provide support. He acknowledges the fear parents have for their children’s safety but urges them not to prioritize protection over their children’s identities. The father concludes by championing his daughter’s agency in embracing her true self.